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Excerpts from The New Outlook
Early December 2007
 

A Christmas Dinner and Children’s Play
On Sunday, December 2, join Elkin and P.J. from Cricket County as they experience their first cruise at sea on the S.B.C. Funship. Meet all 13 cast members, ages 3 to 13, of the “Cricket County Christmas Cruise“ as they reveal “seacrets” and a bit of a twist on the real Christmas story. The kids are enjoying working on their parts and are putting a lot of character into the people they play.

You can choose to wear your favorite cruise attire on anything else you desire. Dinner in the main dining room will be served at 5:00 p.m. Enjoy an evening of fun and delicious food on the high seas, and we’re hoping a special guest will drop by.

Make your reservation by filling out the form in the bulletin or calling the church office by 30. The cost is $7 per adult and $3 per child, with a $20 maximum per family. 

“SLOW DOWN FOR CHRISTMAS”
The most rushed season of the year calls for a hectic pace that often pushes us away from the meaning and mystery that awaits us in Advent. Advent requires spaces, emptiness, readiness, preparation. Using Hebrew scripture, we slow down for Christmas.

The First Sunday of Advent, December 2, “Slow Down and Wait”
            It is a season of waiting and anticipating, not rushing ahead. It isn’t a race to Christmas. 
            Lighting the Joseph Candle
            Text: Isaiah 30:18-20 
            Communion Sunday

The Second Sunday of Advent, December 9, “Slow Down and Behold”
            There is something for you to see, to behold, this Advent season. It is something unexpected and unplanned. Will you
            allow it to happen?  Will you open your eyes and behold? 
            Lighting the Shepherd’s Candle
            Text: Micah 5:1-5

You Are Invited
To a Progressive Dinner 
On Saturday, December 8, 2007
At 5:00 p.m.

Appetizers
At the Marks’

Main course
At the Joneses’
And at the Mahans’
And at the Nalls’

Dessert
At the church

Tickets are available from Linda Marks.
The cost is $15 per person.

Please let Linda Marks know if you would like to carpool. 
Directions will be provided.

Parents’ Christmas Shopping Helpers
SBC Youth provide child care on Sunday, December 9, from noon to 3:00 p.m. as a fund-raiser for their future conference and mission trips. This is an opportunity for parents to go shopping while leaving their children at the church.

Christmas Lessons and Carols Sunday
Expect great music from our choir and musicians on Sunday, December 16, in our 10:30 a.m. service. Invite your family, colleagues and friends to this opportunity for beautiful Christmas music.

Also on December 16 is the dinner and annual meeting to vote on the budget for 2008.

Annual Christmas Eve Candelight Service
Monday, December 24, 5:00 p.m. for all ages
Dr. Jones has an annual tradition of telling different Christmas night stories on Christmas Eve and will preach briefly on “Slow Down and Listen.” Our Second Baptist choir will be singing. We will close the evening as we light the Christ Candle and then light our individual candles throughout the sanctuary.

Adopt-a-Family
Northside Team Ministries has given us a family of eight to help for Christmas. Ornaments are on the tree in the narthex.  Please take an ornament-name tag and sign up on the list next to the tree. Gift-wrap and tag gifts, placing them under the tree by Sunday, December 16. Gift cards are an easy way to respond. You will be a blessing to this family in need at Christmas time.

Angel Tree Ministry
Second Baptist Church begins a new ministry of reaching out to children of parents who are incarcerated. One family of two young children live in the Lake St. Louis area and one child is from Richmond Heights. The Angel Tree committee will purchase Christmas gifts for the children and continue to communicate with them through the coming year. The American Baptist Women’s Ministry fund assists with the Angel Tree ministry.

The Second Baptist Blessings Book
The SBC Blessings Book made its public debut in worship on Blessings Sunday, November 18. Selections from 54 members and friends of Second Baptist Church described how this church and congregation has been and continues to be a blessing in their lives! Wonderful stories are included in every page, touching every facet of congregational life. As thrilling as it was to hear selections from the contributions in worship, it is even more of a blessing to read every entry.

The Blessings Book has room for more contributions. There are blank spaces in the back. We ask that you use the Blessings pages that are available in the office. You can type or hand-write on your page.

A particular word of thanks is owed to Mike Apple for his leadership in coordinating all the efforts of our "Blessed to be a Blessing" stewardship emphasis and to Paula Rardin who creatively designed every page in the Blessings Book. The book is a delight to the eye and to the soul. Drop by the church office anytime and take a look. The book is on a stand out in the open just inside the office door. It will serve as a keepsake for a generation to come of how God has blessed our lives through Second Baptist Church at this point in time.
Stephen Jones

Book Group To Discuss A Celibate Season

Second’s Book Group will meet Monday, December 10, at 2:00 p.m. in the Community Room to discuss A Celibate Season. Carol Shields and  Blanche Howard, two award winning Canadian writers, collaborated to write this novel--the story of a married couple who are going to be separated for a year and who decide to communicate by letter during this period. The letters of Charles, the husband, who is left in Vancouver without a job, but with their house, their 17-year old son, Greg, and their 13-year old daughter, Mia, were written by Carol Shields. Blanche Howard wrote the letters of Jocelyn, the wife.

She is across Canada in Ottawa, serving as legal counsel of the commission looking into "The Feminization of Poverty." We, the readers, have the opportunity to read all of their letters, to see the effects during that year on the whole family, and to compare the writing styles of the two authors.

Hanging of the Greens
The turn-out for the Hanging of the Greens night was almost as large as the Sunday morning crowd! The potluck dinner was varied and delicious. The congregation seemed to enjoy decorating the sanctuary in teams. The evening closed with introducing and dedicating the candles that will be in our church’s advent wreath and with our pastor sharing two Christmas stories which he has told for many years. The children cut out sugar cookie figures of the crèche and had a great time throughout the evening participating in everything we did. It was a wonderful Second Baptist evening. Thanks to Karen Fields, Cindy Collins, Peg Wann, Phyllis Westin, and Ann Turner helping set up the Hanging of the Greens. 

Burmese (Karen) Refugee Family Response
As the Refugee Resettlement volunteers of our church took inventory of all the needs of the family we are sponsoring, it was uncanny that in our random giving as a congregation, we met every requested need in a bountiful response. The household materials were delivered by the team last Tuesday morning, November 27. The father of the family had to flee his home 20 years ago because of war. The family has been living in a refugee camp for 20 years, waiting resettlement. They have 3 young daughters. We continue to pray for them as they adjust to life in the United States.

Congratulations to the American Baptist Women’s Ministries who mailed several large boxes of materials to the Friendship House of Peoria, Illinois to assist families in need at Christmas time. This effort was supported by the mission funds of ABWM.

From the pastor
Even So, Come, Lord Jesus
Last Friday morning at 4:00 a.m., it hit. Actually, I wasn’t even awake, but that was the absurd hour at which the retail stores opened for after-Thanksgiving sales. Christmas music in stores had begun before November. Here we go again.

I have to tell you that Christmas is one of my favorite times of the year. I love nearly everything about Christmas. I love busy city sidewalks and festively decorated downtown department stores. I love outdoor light displays. I love holiday music and  holiday concerts. We have pictures of our children with Santa every year.  

In our family, the advent season competes with three family birthdays. Combined with my career, it makes for an amazingly hectic season.

And all of that is contrary to the meaning of Advent. Advent is a time of the year when we tarry, we wait. It isn’t a time of the year to rush or to fill our lives with busy-ness. So the cultural celebration of Christmas is at odds with the meaning of Advent, and that is why faithful Christians often feel discomfort with this time of the year. One issue is that the birth of Christ gets sidetracked, and another issue is that Advent as a season of expectancy gets overwhelmed by “Christmas delivered.”

I think the real issue of Advent is a request for room in your heart and soul, not the busyness of your calendar. You can pick up the pace, but still find daily and weekly soul time. That is why I am asking you to consider using an advent wreath in your home if that has not been your tradition. We will be lighting the candles in the Advent Wreath in the sanctuary each Advent Sunday (beginning next Sunday, December 2).

It is also why I have selected a daily advent devotional booklet for those who choose this discipline. You will be receiving in your Advent Sunday worship bulletins a take-home sheet to guide you in the lighting of your advent wreath. If you don’t own one, we have ordered 12 brass advent rings along with the purple/pink/white candles and they will be available this Sunday for $9. If you own one, locate where it is stored before Sunday. If you live alone, of course you can light your wreath alone.  But you might choose a friend or two with whom to light a shared advent wreath on a weekly basis at a mutually convenient time. If you have children, please include them in this tradition.

Then, find some daily time to center yourself by going deep into God’s Spirit. This needn’t be a time of words, but a time of communing. Particularly because this is such a hectic season, even 20 - 30 minutes a day will add an unbelievable balance in your life. I might suggest a mantra: “Even so, come, Lord Jesus.” Yes, my life and my calendar are cluttered, “even so…” Yes, my list of things I must get accomplished is long, “even so…” Yes, I get distracted by all the secular trappings of Christmas, “even so, come, Lord Jesus.”

Breathe the prayer repeatedly, quietly. Don’t think about it. Don’t solve it as a puzzle. Don’t work for an answer. Just breathe the prayer. I predict you’ll be amazed at the difference this Advent season will make in your life.

 – Stephen Jones

 WEEKLY ACTIVITIES                                 
Sun     8:45 a.m,      Adult Choir Rehearsal in Sanctuary
          9:15 a.m.      Classes for Children, Youth and  Adults
         10:30 a.m.      Worship in the Sanctuary                                                                  
         11:30 a.m.      Coffee Fellowship
Mon   7:00 p.m.       Obsessive-Compulsive Group in Community  Room                    
Tue    1st and 3rd    10:00 a.m., American Baptist Women's Ministry                                
Tue    6:30 p.m .      Adult Children of Alcoholics in Community Room
Wed   6:30 p.m.       Choir Rehearsal

 SPECIAL ACTIVITIES
Dec 2    Children’s play and Christmas dinner 5:00 p.m.
Dec 8    Progressive Dinner, 5:00 p.m.                           
Dec 9    Shopping helpers' child care provided, Noon-3 p.m.   
Dec 10   Book Group 2:00 p.m.                                                       
             Church Council meeting 6:15 p.m.                                    
Dec 16   Christmas Lessons & Carols during worship service, 10:30 a.m.       
             Congregational luncheon and budget vote 11:30 a.m.           
             Northside Christmas family gifts due under the tree                
Dec 23   Open House at the Joneses’  3-6 p.m.       
Dec 24   Christmas Eve Candlelight service 5:00 p.m.
Dec 25   Christmas Day! Christ is Born!
 
 

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